Jordan at 64 is like Benjamin Button’s case

Today is the 64th anniversary for Jordan’s Independence Day from Great Britain. This small mostly arid desert area, called the Kingdom of Jordan, is not new to civilization. Numerous civilizations took part in Jordan’s history including Canaanite, Nabatean, Othman, and British. These and other different civilizations lived and built Jordan shaped its culture and ethnicity. 

Some Arab students in their early 20s, who I talked to here in the U.S., were shocked to know that Jordan’s royal family came from Saudi Arabia, where King Abdullah’s great-great-grandfather was the Sharif of Mecca. They didn’t know that Circassians in Jordan lived there since late 19th century. That is before the establishment of the Kingdom of Jordan and Transjordan before that. And that half (more or less) of the Jordanian population ancestors came from different places like Palestine, Syria, Lebanon, Saudi Arabia, Armenia and Chechnya.

I say Jordan has Benjamin Button’s case because it started old, with all its glorious history, and it is getting younger, year after year not to infancy but to a more radiant and powerful youthful age. It gives me sense of appreciation, proud, and loyalty to Jordan when I see some twenty-something group of people transforming the media in Jordan. Their blogs are getting recognized at an international level and they post news swifter than the local traditional media. When I was in my 20s (i.e., during the 90s) I never knew anyone in this age group participating in any volunteer work. Now, it becomes the norm. They built websites for this purpose and even promoting this Good Samaritan through different social networks. Some of their websites are even more professional than some of our news websites.

A common question I am always asked by non-Jordanians, Arabs and non-Arabs, is “What Jordan is famous for?” Of course they are not asking about historic places which we have plenty of but they want to know what we build or make or what we export. They want to know if we are an agricultural or industrial country. If you are a Jordanian try to answer this, if you can.

Since, I don’t know how to answer this question I always have something different to say. They will not understand what it means to be one of the poorest countries in the world with water resources. I know they don’t have time to listen to me explaining a conflict that is been straining our strength for more than 60 years to find peace and just. They don’t know about the 400,000 Jordanian and Palestinian expatriates who were forced to flee Kuwait during the Iraq invasion in 1990 and later in 2003 about the 700,000 Iraqi refugees who came to Jordan dreaming to find a safe place for their families. Others may not comprehend why part of Jordan’s resources come from Jordanian expatriates and that almost each family in Jordan has a son, daughter, brother, or sister living outside Jordan.

Jordan might not be considered an industrial or agricultural country but it is a country where you can find peace. And I hope it always be the sanctuary for anyone looking for peace. With our limited resources we managed as well to make Jordan a destination for some Arabs to study in our many universities or for some others to seek medical treatment. Both of these services are something Jordan is proud of among its Arab countries.

Dear Jordan, if there is anything I hope for you is to be looked at as a place of peace and just. You maybe a peaceful place now but you still have a long way to reach just. I am not talking about obtaining just from the king or from the government; I am referring to being just in all our affairs. The misconception about just among people is that just is something granted by a higher authority. Being just or fair starts from within. We need to be just and fair to ourselves first, by not doing wrong, and then to others. We need to be fair to other drivers, to other pedestrians, even to the streets by keeping them clean. We need to stop smoking in public places and stop using our cell phones when we converse with others face to face. We need to treat fellow Jordanians, regardless of origin, the same way we expect them to treat us. We need to treat women in the most respectful way, the way of Islam not culture. Men were commanded to be just to their wives. But, the most unjust act in Jordan that we need to work very hard to get rid of is nepotism. Once we get rid of it we can say we are moving forward toward being a place of peace and just.

Jordan, I love you and I hope one day soon to be at your service.

Happy Jordan’s day!


10 thoughts on “Jordan at 64 is like Benjamin Button’s case

  1. There are a lot of things that must change, and we should not take it a way of life in our country in order to raise Jordan up more and more.

    Peace … even though some of bad actions happened from time to time, but in general we have peace wal7amdolellah

    Just…. inshallah one day we will have a complete just in all aspect of our lives :$

    As a start “Wasta” should vanish

    “Jordan, I love you and I hope one day soon to be at your service.” …..I like it 🙂

    Happy independence day Jaraad 🙂

    1. Thanks!
      Yes, we still have many problems that we need to fix in our country. And the first thing to do that is to admit what kind of problems we have. No doubt we reached a level were favoritism “wasta” is no longer a good thing, It holds Jordan back.

  2. I am being so optimistic about the World’s future and in particular Jordan’s future.
    We’re a well educated citizens, and this generation thinks better than the previous ones, the coming ones also will be more educated than we are and more passionated to make this place a better one!
    “Be the change you want to see in the world” -Mahatma Gandhi.
    I believe that if we really wanna stop any bad behaviors, we must act ourselves in the 1st place, we must take the lead and lot of people will follow! We’re the ones who’ll lead this World after few decades, so we must seriously start thinking positively, discuss this with ignorants and start some small initiatives.
    I love Jordan! I love us! haha
    And I hate System Programming! (Exams symptoms yeah!)

    1. Well said. Yes, we should be an example to others. I used to hate when I tell someone why you throw this paper or can on the street and he answers that the street is already dirty. If we do what everyone does we will never change.
      Actually what you said cant be more true “I love Jordan! I love us!” because if we didn’t love both the country and people we will not work hard to be a better nation.
      System programming? Are you in computer science related field? CS is my major.

  3. Computer Engineering 😦
    I’ve been doing well and loving it, until I discovered that it’s the worst major EVER!
    All the IT field is not me… You must be posted up to date with evth new, and ev. second there’s sth new about it! It’s like buzzing me all the time, if I wanna call myself a computer engineer then I must know evth abt it.
    Adding to this that I discovered that there’re somethings more important than the whole technology thingy… Humanity, Poverty, Global health, Dignity, Environment and much more…
    fa I’m just waiting to get done with this (l2no 7aram to quit now) and then, I’ll start doing sth I like!
    I’m heading to my final exam 🙂
    Wish my luck!

    1. I see. Finish your degree and then you can do whatever you want. Computer Engineering can get you some nice places. Many of us at some point during our study start thinking about humanitarian issues but these thoughts come to us to convince ourselves that what we do is less important than these more important issues. They are in fact more important but we can do nothing if we just think about it. And the way to do something about it is to get our degree first.
      بالتوفيق ان شاء الله في امتحاناتك

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